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delicatale ([personal profile] delicatale) wrote2011-09-01 04:13 pm

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Okay, I really feel the need to ask this question here, because I am a bit worried about things I have read this afternoon...

In fic, do you prefer when characters use a condom or not? Say, in a Steve/Danny first time fic, what do you prefer? What do you think is more in character?

Please, do tell me. Any answer would be precious for my sanity, right now.

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_thelostcity/ 2011-09-01 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I did see what you did there! And same about the recklessness about a condom-less blowjob, but it is definitely hotter and also more disruptive than putting one on for penetrative sex. I remember reading a story (not this fandom) where the person giving the blowjob put a condom on the receiver, but it just felt so awkward in the moment.

Yes, exactly what I was thinking. It's just...what you do nowadays. Many women even supply the condom, sometimes, too. And you do this until you're tested and decide not to anymore, but certainly not as a first-time, early-relationship thing.

Just because it's fiction doesn't mean it doesn't matter! Safe sex is the way to go and should be practiced as much as possible.

[identity profile] delicatale.livejournal.com 2011-09-01 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
It can indeed feel a bit awkward, to write and to read. It's just common anyway, not to have a condom during these parts, even if you should.